Escalation or Resolution? Strategies for Navigating Arguments in Relationships

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Do you ever get into a situation with someone where they talk your ear off and you really want to say something back but you know that saying something will cause a massive quarrel between you two, making everything worse than it already is? Because same and here is what I have to say about that...

When it comes to getting into arguments steer away from them. Mainly because arguments cause you to lash out and say things you don't really mean, speaking from experience. Then after those things are displayed they will be regretted. Which will cause overthinking and more chaos. I'm not implying that I know what's best but I feel that your mental health will be way better if you avoid arguments and sit in silence instead. Because silence is louder than anything you can possibly say.

Also, you should remove yourself from the situation. If you are in an argument with someone else go somewhere else and leave the person alone for a while so they can calm down till it's time for them to communicate more effectively and appropriately. Keep everything calm and collected. 

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